Match 'N' Make... A Sticky Situation...

Its been close to half a year since my last entry.. and due to the constant demands from my peeps to update the blog.. eh heh.. so here goes..

'Match' n 'Make' of the 20th century ..

Who's up for the match n make game? Hands Up!! :-) (Dun worry..im not the ambassador for SDU ok..)

Life is so full of secrets.. and thats the best part of it.. when it starts to reveal its wonders bit by bit to you.. especially when you least expect it.. (or the last thing that you want to happen at that point of tym)

Its a wonder to find out that such match n make situations do exist..still exist in our modern day situation.. well.. mainly it has a few effects on the parties involved..

1) You welcome the idea with open arms.. :-)

OR

2) Escapism & Rejection (Basically, you dread the idea and run away from it)

OR

3) Acception / Self - Deception (Basically, accepting it despite the fact you dread it.. lying to yourself its gona be all fine.. yeah rite.. => some may perceive it as positive thinking..

It'll hit you harder when its been forced onto you.. especially if your mind, heart and soul is already tied to THAT one. Then comes the question of sacrifice.. hmm..

welcome to the grey area my fren..

You see.. in a typical movie settings.. you have the persistent traditional/conservative parents who happily arrange the marriages for their beloved son/daughter. Then, son/daughter will be caught between loyalty to parents and love to other innocent party (whose existence is not welcomed but somehow was there to complicate matters.. yes, the main culprit is love)..

If u happen to be in KKKG, the son still chooses the gurl over the father..
if u happen to be in DDLJ, the daughter still gets to marry the one that she loves..

Yeah..yeah.. its all happily ever after..

BUT...(that's in movie..) heh..

Smell the Air of Reality.. Here's a glimpse of it ...
(courteasy of an unfortunate / fortunate indivdual)

"Boy meets gurl..
Boy likes gurl...
Boy begins to love gurl..
Boy propose to gurl..
Gurl says Yes :-)(awwww...)
Boy tells father..
Father told boy "NO" (oh sh***t)
Boy supposed to marry girl whom father choose
Boy says OK.. (what d - heck??)
So, boy tells girl..
We remain as frenz..
Boy says bye bye..
The End.."

[Disclaimer: The characters mentioned above are purely fictional.. Any similarities or familiarities to real situations out there are purely coincidental.. ]


Hmm...


Qn: What the heck just happen?
Qn: Loyalty/ Love to parents.. How much wud you sacrifice for them?
Qn: WHo determines your life? Parents? You? Or the Al-Mighty Him? :-) We Shud noe the answer yeah.. But trust me... certain deluded inviduals dont..

Qn: Fate? How much do you rely on them?
Qn: A test of sincerity, love and loyalty in a relationship...? A complete failure in this case?
Qn: If boy ever comes back.. should gurl give boy a 2nd chance?
hmm..Tempting.. should gurl get herself burnt by going back to old flame?? hmm..
Qn: what the heck gurl is doin with such a boy?
Qn: its hard to push the blame.. and yeah..wun solve anything..


Sticky situation.. (How much we hate sticky situations...haiz...)